DNI CRITERIA |
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Self explanatory, this is a list of stances made for myself. I formatted in DNI form, but idc if you interact tbh. |
For, uh, reasons, I will be splitting this into sections. I think it's easier to comprehend something more interactive w/ shorter pages. Click links to proceed. |
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Just a bit of housekeeping. We don't condone harassment. Block us if you disagree, We'll block you. FAQ linked. |
DO NOT INTERACT IF !
You fit my basic dni criteria
You are queerphobic
You are ableist
BASICS ! DNI if this applies to you or your friends.
Racist (anti-black, anti-asian, xenophobe etc.)
Sexist. (disregard victims just because they're men, think men > women, think feminism only benefits women/ feminism is bad. The patriarchy hurts everyone.)
Fakeclaimers. Unless you can show me concrete proof, just don't.
Support doxxing, harassment, and death/SA threats. Never okay no matter who.
"Pro-life"/anti-abortion.
Anti sex work, anti kink. I'm generally SFW on social media, but I will still stand for these causes. I believe age/petplay are okay between two consenting adults.
Anti Agere/Petre, think they're inherently sexual or the same as kink in any way. If you trash on sexual regressors though...I will maim.
Antisemitic, Islamophobic, any kind of religious discrimination, mock religion/spirituality in any way.
Pro contact Zoo, MAP, etc. Anyone who actively wants to engage in the big three and other "harmful" paras.
Say unreclaimed slurs.
Crypto, NFTs or similar. Also steer clear if you steal from/plagiarise artists.
Anti-ship. Wee bit tired of explaining, here you go.
Hates on my likes. Very important to criticise media even if you do like it, though.
"Jirai Kei", read this for an explanation why.
QUEERPHOBIC ! DNI if this applies to you or your friends.
Exclus, transmeds, truscums. Against xenogenders, neopronouns, MOGAI. This includes mocking genderfluid identities as well.
TERF, RadFem, and/or any similar branches of feminism excluding trans people.
Radqueer, and/or transid (e.g: trans-age).
Fetishize mlm and wlw relationships. (Asking "who's the top", comparing real people to BL/GL, etc.) Fujoshis are based though.
Against anyone who's pronouns don't necessarily equate to their identity in general. Against non binary lesbians/gays.
Think that aroace people aren't lgbtq+: exclusionists and Aphobic: Mock QPRs, thinks they're "just friends" or "not real".
Think MAPs or Zoos are queer. They're not.
Literally any bad faith identities. (Racist pronouns, "dreamsexual" etc.)
Think transmisogyny/transandrophobia doesn't exist.
If you support any queerphobic movements/corporations.
Enbyphobic (uses the word "theyfab", exclude amab non binaries when talking about nby experiences, or assigns nbys to a binary in any way.)
I don't understand nor like radinclus at all but fuck if you keep infighting we'll all die so stop it. Don't talk to me if you harass mspec lesbians.
ABLEIST ! DNI if this applies to you or your friends.
Think allistic people can say the r slur.
Dismiss the experiences of physically disabled people OR chronically ill, mental or otherwise "invisible" when talking about ableism.
non-traumagenic systems and similar branches. Thinks system hopping is real. (astral projection is a whole other ballgame, I believe that to be a valid practice.)
Think people with DID, schizophrenia, NPD etc. are abusive and/or violent.
Criminalises paraphillias. Do not target anyone if they aren't acting on it (e.g: asking for contact, sexualising IRL minors, etc).
Mocks and/or misuse tone tags.
Inherently Anti-recovery: EDtwt, SHtwt, most of the pro-para community etc. Conversly, do not make fun of people for recovery.
Think functional multiplicity isn't a valid end goal.
Equate introjects with their source. Identifying with source/being source heavy is perfectly valid. Even if it can be unhealthy, everyone recovers at their own pace. But DO NOT try and flirt with them without content etc.
Denies the existence of delusions or fake-claim those who claims to have delusions. It's as if awareness isn't a known ocurrence in patients and is the first step to help.
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In this section, I answer some frequently asked questions about my DNI and also address some issues regarding my DNI. Note: I personally nowadays use this more as a stances list than an active DNI. |
The fact I need to say any of this at all is bizarre to me. But hey. All in good faith— right? So I can roll with it. At least for now. Please just respect it. |
1. Why is your DNI so long? Because bigots don't understand they're bigots. I gotta spell it out for them.
2. Should we interact if I break you dni, or you break mine? I can't stop anyone from trying, but to curate the best experience online, do not interact with people you know disagree with you.
3. Who would read this much? 90% of my dni should be self explanatory. It's for the bigots who just don't get it.
4. Can I link and use this? Go for it.