DNI CRITERIA
Self explanatory, this is a list of stances made for myself. I formatted in DNI form, but idc if you interact tbh.
For, uh, reasons, I will be splitting this into sections. I think it's easier to comprehend something more interactive w/ shorter pages. Click links to proceed.
NOTES
Just a bit of housekeeping. We don't condone harassment. Block us if you disagree, We'll block you. FAQ linked.

BASICS ! DNI if this applies to you or your friends.

  • Racist (anti-black, anti-asian, xenophobe etc.)

  • Sexist. (disregard victims just because they're men, think men > women, think feminism only benefits women/ feminism is bad. The patriarchy hurts everyone.)

  • Fakeclaimers. Unless you can show me concrete proof, just don't.

  • Support doxxing, harassment, and death/SA threats. Never okay no matter who.

  • "Pro-life"/anti-abortion.

  • Anti sex work, anti kink. I'm generally SFW on social media, but I will still stand for these causes. I believe age/petplay are okay between two consenting adults.

  • Anti Agere/Petre, think they're inherently sexual or the same as kink in any way. If you trash on sexual regressors though...I will maim.

  • Antisemitic, Islamophobic, any kind of religious discrimination, mock religion/spirituality in any way.

  • Pro contact Zoo, MAP, etc. Anyone who actively wants to engage in the big three and other "harmful" paras.

  • Say unreclaimed slurs.

  • Crypto, NFTs or similar. Also steer clear if you steal from/plagiarise artists.

  • Anti-ship. Wee bit tired of explaining, here you go.

  • Hates on my likes. Very important to criticise media even if you do like it, though.

  • "Jirai Kei", read this for an explanation why.

QUEERPHOBIC ! DNI if this applies to you or your friends.

  • Exclus, transmeds, truscums. Against xenogenders, neopronouns, MOGAI. This includes mocking genderfluid identities as well.

  • TERF, RadFem, and/or any similar branches of feminism excluding trans people.

  • Radqueer, and/or transid (e.g: trans-age).

  • Fetishize mlm and wlw relationships. (Asking "who's the top", comparing real people to BL/GL, etc.) Fujoshis are based though.

  • Against anyone who's pronouns don't necessarily equate to their identity in general. Against non binary lesbians/gays.

  • Think that aroace people aren't lgbtq+: exclusionists and Aphobic: Mock QPRs, thinks they're "just friends" or "not real".

  • Think MAPs or Zoos are queer. They're not.

  • Literally any bad faith identities. (Racist pronouns, "dreamsexual" etc.)

  • Think transmisogyny/transandrophobia doesn't exist.

  • If you support any queerphobic movements/corporations.

  • Enbyphobic (uses the word "theyfab", exclude amab non binaries when talking about nby experiences, or assigns nbys to a binary in any way.)

  • I don't understand nor like radinclus at all but fuck if you keep infighting we'll all die so stop it. Don't talk to me if you harass mspec lesbians.

ABLEIST ! DNI if this applies to you or your friends.

  • Think allistic people can say the r slur.

  • Dismiss the experiences of physically disabled people OR chronically ill, mental or otherwise "invisible" when talking about ableism.

  • non-traumagenic systems and similar branches. Thinks system hopping is real. (astral projection is a whole other ballgame, I believe that to be a valid practice.)

  • Think people with DID, schizophrenia, NPD etc. are abusive and/or violent.

  • Criminalises paraphillias. Do not target anyone if they aren't acting on it (e.g: asking for contact, sexualising IRL minors, etc).

  • Mocks and/or misuse tone tags.

  • Inherently Anti-recovery: EDtwt, SHtwt, most of the pro-para community etc. Conversly, do not make fun of people for recovery.

  • Think functional multiplicity isn't a valid end goal.

  • Equate introjects with their source. Identifying with source/being source heavy is perfectly valid. Even if it can be unhealthy, everyone recovers at their own pace. But DO NOT try and flirt with them without content etc.

  • Denies the existence of delusions or fake-claim those who claims to have delusions. It's as if awareness isn't a known ocurrence in patients and is the first step to help.

NOTES
In this section, I answer some frequently asked questions about my DNI and also address some issues regarding my DNI. Note: I personally nowadays use this more as a stances list than an active DNI.
The fact I need to say any of this at all is bizarre to me. But hey. All in good faith— right? So I can roll with it. At least for now. Please just respect it.
  • 1. Why is your DNI so long? Because bigots don't understand they're bigots. I gotta spell it out for them.

  • 2. Should we interact if I break you dni, or you break mine? I can't stop anyone from trying, but to curate the best experience online, do not interact with people you know disagree with you.

  • 3. Who would read this much? 90% of my dni should be self explanatory. It's for the bigots who just don't get it.

  • 4. Can I link and use this? Go for it.